?Love Me. Love my Family.?
Sounds good, but this is rarely truth. Introducing your romantic partner into a traditional family get together can be fun, entertaining. but can take your relationship to a place of no return
Thrusting your new love into a sea of family dynamics can put an end to all your hopes and aspirations of a long-lasting relationship. squelching any feelings of sensual, sexual desire.
SO. Prepare yourself to Avoid Potential Roadblocks Before the Event:
* Don?t expect your partner to be captivated by your relatives, to savor the traditional food, be enthralled by the stories, or ever want to see your family again Remember, YOU are the LOVE and the object of affection. so, don?t overtly ?push? your guest on to these family strangers and don?t make definite statements such as ?Uncle Ned is really loud and rude. but you?re going to love him anyway.?
* Don?t bring up the subject of children: your children. their children. good and bad behaving children. whatever is said can be taken incorrectly by either you, your companion, or both. especially if your relationship hasn?t reached permanent status. so, just make general conversation and say ?well. kids will be kids.?
* while we?re on the subject of children: there?s nothing like a little baby to make grown adults act like complete idiots. the elastic faces, goo-gooing, tongue wiggling and jumping like a loon just to get the little one to smile. so, if your guest hasn?t seen you in this mental state. then don?t do it
* Don?t overindulge in: old humiliating stories, awkward kissing and hugging, intoxicating spirits. this can be overwhelming to your guest and also be uncomfortable for your relatives. perhaps the family members don?t know whether to accept your partner as your friend, love, companion, or if a wedding is in the future. If you haven?t made your relationship specifics known, then now is not the time for embarrassing details.
How to make the Best of A Family Celebration When You only Want it to stop:
* Don?t go for the day Just make an appearance for dessert and coffee. Bring a tasty treat as a gift, and keep smiling. Put a ?timer? on your visit, so your stay is short and sweet. obliging and comfortable.
* while you?re there, you guide the conversation in your own way by asking general, polite questions, and making gentle, fun-loving comments. Your family will think you?re an angel and your guest will be impressed with your charm.
* If you?re the one doing the family entertaining, then coordinate a plan so you won?t be overwhelmed with doing everything PLUS accommodating your ?love.? Putting yourself into the visual role of matriarch/patriarch may not live up to the sensual, desirous person you want your companion to see in you. especially in the early romance stage.
Holidays and Family Traditional Celebrations can be great getting together to rehash the past, both good and bad. and getting the update on all the family happenings can be fun, and also needed for family bonding, especially as the family grows.
As we get older, we know that most will NEVER get on with Uncle Ned and we tend to be quite truthful in letting our opinions be known. But as true love and circumstances grow, what seems to be insurmountable now. can be overlooked and even tolerated.
So, revel in the journey of budding romantic love and tread lightly when introducing the particulars of your relationship at family celebration time. and be all means. here?s wishing you the magnificent, loving life of your dreams.
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